Missing Interpersonal Communication.. =.=

Salam and great day,


Not all what we wish for will come true...and sometimes what we don't wish for will suddenly appears and make us blur and don't know what to do...


According to Steve A. Beebe, Susan J. Beebee and Mark V. Redmond in their book of Interpersonal Communication in relationship, they explained that how the relationship end. A declining relationship usually follow one of several paths.


I have experienced ending the relationship by Fading Away- me and him just drift further and further apart. We spent less time together as both of us were having a long distance relationship, thus it let more time go by between interactions and stop disclosing much about ourselves. I tell you what, long distance relationship require us a great deal of effort to maintain, so a move can easily decrease the level of intimacy.




Now, after a long time, I finally began to wrote this poem:



        Dunia dah x dipenuhi dgn angan2 lg...

        Bila aku x lg mampu utk bermimpi seperti dulu2...

        Aku x lg dpt membayangkan semua itu,

        Bagaikan bukan sahaja mata, malah hati dan juga fikiran turut menjadi buta,

        Tak mampu utk melihat, x mampu utk berperasaan, dan x mampu utk membayangkan...


        Dunia dah x dipenuhi dgn angan2 lg,

        Bila semua seakan mati,

        X lg hidup berseri2...

        x lg membawa erti,

        Cuma duka dan airmata setia menemani,

        Saat semuanya hancur menjadi keping-kepingan lara..


        Dunia dah x dipenuhi dgn angan2 lg,

        Bila aku x boleh memaksa dia menerima aku,

        Dan aku juga x boleh memaksa diriku untuk tidak berfikir tentangnya,

        X boleh memaksa diriku dari tidak mengingatinya...

        Malah x boleh juga memaksa diriku utk meninggalkannya...


        Dan dunia x lg dipenuhi angan2..

        Bila satu jasad x mampu kemana2,

        Bagaikan tersepit diantara 2 alam,

        Kebahagiaan dan keperitan,

        X mampu mengangkat kaki utk melangkah ke alam bahagia..

        Cuma terpaku di tengah2..

        Sambil merenung ke alam keperitan,

        Yang x mungkin dpt ku padamkan jejaknya...


        Dunia x lg dipenuhi dgn angan2...

        Bila keperitan ku dahulu adalah kegembiraan ku...

        X mampu untuk memadamkan jejak,

        Kerana x mahu menghilangkan kenangan didalamnya...

 


Actually, I wrote more than this post, but I don't know what I did till half of this post is missing... =.= Haishh..


Whatever it is, LIFE HAS TO GO ON, right? Making friend is the better opportunity to grab!~ Coz I believe in this, 'WHATEVER HAPPEN, FRIEND WILL NEVER LEAVE THEIR FRIEND BEHIND'....A true friend la, not a FAKE friend... ^_^